“The Control They Trying to Take Even After Jen had Gone”

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“The Control They Tried to Take Even After Jen had Gone”

What family means

From the very beginning, there were signs of manipulation. Not the obvious kind, the quiet kind. The kind that creeps in through threats, pressure, and people acting like they have authority over your life when they don’t.

When Jennie passed, I said what any fiancé would say:

I wanted Jennie to have dignity.

A coffin.

A proper goodbye from the home Jennie lived in.

But instead of support, I got accused of “taking control.”

As if wanting to honour the woman I love with the best send off was some kind of power move, it's called wanting to live by our plans we made, the wishes we made, and they want to destroy that too.

The truth?

I had to run every single detail past them.

Every choice.

Every decision.

Even the speech.

And when they handed me their version of the speech, the one they wrote, they made me sound like I was nothing. Like I was just some roadie who happened to be around. Eleven years together, and they reduced me to a footnote.

So I rewrote it.

I corrected it.

I put the truth back in.

And here’s the part that still makes my stomach turn:

The only honest part of that entire speech was the part I wrote.

The rest was a performance.

A show.

A story they wanted people to believe, getting fake friends that Jennie never trusted and they knew this, but still went to people Jennie didn't trust one bit. .

Then came the next wave - the erasure.

Suddenly, I wasn’t in Jennies life.

Suddenly, they were the centre of everything and the only people that mattered.

Suddenly, they're emailing companies, sending paperwork, stealing documents, manipulating forms, Hacking Jennies Facebook account, removing our memories, and pushing this bizarre narrative that Jennie had “nobody in Jens life?”

Nobody?

The whole world knew we were together for over eleven years and well and truly in love, have some respect!

What you see there never happened at all, no check in happened in Italy by us in 2023, but hacker did...

But they weren’t done.

Out of nowhere, “friends” appeared on Jennies hacked Facebook account that's been stalking us for years, again, not friends on there, people Jennie never had as friends on her Facebook, people Jennie wouldn’t have accepted, people who had stalked us for years, and suddenly the account gets hacked again, after Jennie passed, there they were, front and centre, commenting like they’d been part of Jens life all along. 'No they haven't.'

Now that wasn’t grief.

It wasn’t love.

It was an agenda.

Beautiful memories, gone! Degusting and desperate to scoop so low, what else are they playing...

A coordinated attempt to rewrite Jennies story, erase me, and build a fake version of events that suited them whiles steeling everything personal out of our home yet again, and that's clear to see with the hacked FB account of when it was taken over, it's not rocket science...

These cyber attacks and steeling accounts is not in my head like they're trying to make out to be! These family members where never ever on Jennies Facebook and there was a reason for that, now they're on there, anyone who knows Jennie well, what else is wrong with this profile?

Everything I write about will have a huge part of Jennie in there, every blog I write about, everything I create, Jennie will always be with me, in my words, in all that I do, that's what true love is about, Jennie made a promise she would love me until the day she dies, I made the same promise, that doesn't get broken, it doesn't get rewritten, its a promise from the heart, and boy my heart remains as strong as ever, now that's Jens guy, that's the guy Jennie thought the world off, my world is torture without Jennie in it and no one has any right to tell me what to write about, especially when there steeling everything about us and have been for years and years! People who have magically jumped in on Jennies Hacked Facebook account, and then me getting harassed... Funny how they even got there to start with, Jennie didn't put them there.

Saying that, the change over will be there as clear as day when they stole it, that will lead them all the other hacked email accounts to... Simples

No one in life should be dealing with what I am trying to hold together for Jennie and our love and our circle.

My love goes nowhere, but there's did.

Thank you for reading this, I wish you healing.