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“Consent, Ownership, and the People Who Think They Can Rewrite Our Story”

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              “Consent, Ownership, and the People Who Think They Can Rewrite Our Story” For over 11 years, everything we’ve shared online, every photo, every post, every memory, has been done with our full consent. Jennie gave me permission. No one else!  So let me make this absolutely clear: I write what I want. I post what I want. I use the pictures we chose together, our memories not yours. And I have the consent to do so all these years like Jennie has with me. That’s the truth. What isn’t done with consent is what’s been happening behind the scenes: People accessing accounts that aren’t theirs People manipulating documents People trying to rewrite history People trying to remove my books, our music, my work People trying to take away Jennie’s memories, her wishes, her legacy People taking things from our property, things that belonged to us, not them Those actions were done without permission. Those actions were done without consent. Those ac...

The Issues With Facebook Accounts

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  The Issues With Facebook Accounts The problems began around when all our passwords were stolen from our home yet again. Everything we had, we had stolen and never spoken up about it because the manipulators was telling us not too and in our home.  They say I don't have permissions, No you don't, I did, and you never did until you stole and manipulated every document from our home. The manipulation started there... 2022 when we lost everything to a bullshit companies, this is were the gangs and the stalking comes into play even more, they targeted our emails, our Facebook pages, then trying to say I don't have permission to post, Hello, that's all we have been doing these last 11 years, I don't no what rock these people crawled out off, but they can go back in it.. 12 December 2025 , when Jen’s Facebook account was first compromised. Not long after, my own account began showing unusual behaviour, around January to March , with a major shift happening around 12 Mar...

“When Grief Is Not Respected”

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There are moments in life when you expect compassion, or at the very least silence. Losing someone who shaped your whole world, someone you lived with for over 11 years, cared for, and shared a life with, should be one of those moments. But for me, grief has been met with something very different. For years, I’ve carried the weight of a difficult situation, harassment, intimidation, emotional pressure, and behaviour that chipped away at our peace. I stayed quiet. I tried to keep the peace. I tried to move forward with our life's, even when we were being dragged backwards. When Jennie passed away, I thought the hostility would stop. I thought grief would soften things. Instead, it became another weapon. Another way to twist the knife. Another way to try to control us, silence me, or make me feel like I had no right to honour the woman love and lived with for over a decade, the woman that trust me, not them, and that's another issue here. I’ve been accused, threatened, and spoken...

The part about jealous people Blog post section

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  THE PART ABOUT JEALOUS PEOPLE - BLOG POST SECTION There’s a certain type of person in this world - and you know exactly the type I mean. They never support you. They never clap when you’re winning. They never say “well done,” “I’m proud of you,” or even a simple “are you okay” when life hits hard. But they’re always watching. Not to learn from you. Not to grow with you. Not to celebrate you. They’re watching because they’re waiting. Waiting for you to slip. Waiting for you to fall. Waiting for the moment they can say, “See? I knew it.” These people don’t want to see you rise because your rise reminds them of everything they lack inside themselves. Your talent exposes their emptiness. Your strength exposes their weakness. Your voice exposes their silence. They can’t create what you create. They can’t build what you build. They can’t be who you are. So instead of working on themselves, they fixate on you. They copy you. They mimic you. They steal from you. They talk about you. They...

No One Speaks About The Truth When It Comes To Support = 📚 Monthly prize = Real Support Only

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   No One Speaks About The Truth When It Comes To Support  No One Speaks About The Truth When It Comes to Support There are some truths that sit heavy on the heart, and this is one of them. For a long time, I’ve carried the weight of watching someone incredibly talented someone full of music, creativity, and light, be surrounded by people who never truly saw her. Not the way Jennie deserved to be seen by them. Jennie had an amazing gift and a massive heart. Anyone who heard Jennie sing knows that. But what people don’t know is how often that gift was met with silence, criticism, or worse discouragement from the very people who should have lifted Jennie up. The truth is simple: the people who should have been Jennies biggest supporters weren’t there for Jennie at all! Not in the way Jennie needed and wanted. Not in the way Jennie deserved. The people who barely knew Jennie, friends, strangers, people who stumbled across Jennie or our music, showed us more love and respect ...

📚 Books & Creative Work (From Ages 4 to Adults)

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My love will always continue in everything I do. Books & Creative Work (From Ages 4 to Adults) Children’s Books (Ages 4–12) Storybooks for early readers (ages 4–6) Adventure stories for older kids (ages 7–12) Fun, imaginative tales for the “big kids” in the family Personalised children’s stories with custom names and details Activity Books Maze books Adult Books. The heart felt Jennie Bonita Bed Time Story Poetry Colouring Book, Activity series Word search books,  Word finder books,  Spelling and vocabulary activity books Fiction,  Short stories      Novels Adventure, drama, mystery, emotional journeys, the full mix. Real‑life reflections,  Motivational and personal insight writing.  Informative guides and themed topics.  Poetry.  Emotional poetry.  Humorous poetry,  Deep, expressive collections,  Music‑inspired poetry,  Personalised Books  Custom stories for kids,  Personalised adult stories,  Name...

Talking About the New Spot the Difference Book, and Why Jennie Will Always Be Part of My Work and always in my heart

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  Talking About the New Spot the Difference Book - and Why Jennie Will Always Be Part of My Work So, here’s where I’m up to. I’ve been working on this new kids’ Spot the Difference book - bright pages, fun little puzzles, a few important pictures tucked in, and that playful style that keeps kids busy and smiling. It’s part of a bigger plan I had ages ago: a whole collection of children’s books. Life took its turns, things changed, and the first book didn’t happen back then… but I’m here now, doing it properly, doing it with heart. And here’s the thing people need to understand: Jennie is in everything I create. Not because I’m trying to “add her in” or make it a theme, but because she is my theme. She’s my foundation, my spark, my reason I even pick up a pen. She’s in my thoughts, my ideas, my stories, my artwork. She’s in my voice when I write. She’s in the way I see the world. So yes, even in a kids’ Spot the Difference book, you’ll feel her there. Not in a heavy way. Not in ...